During the tumultuous and transformative phase of adolescence, teenagers undergo a multitude of changes as they embark on a journey to discover their unique identities and values. According to recent studies, the maturation of the neocortex happens around 24 years. This is the seat for cognitive functioning.
The process of self-discovery can be perplexing and demanding, requiring parental presence and understanding to serve as a stabilising anchor in the tempestuous sea of self-exploration.
According to Dr Harini Atturu, Consultant – Psychiatry, CARE Hospitals, Hi-Tec City, Hyderabad, fostering proper communication with teenagers becomes a crucial cornerstone in guiding them through this critical period of their lives.
“When parents engage in open, sincere, and empathetic conversations with their adolescents, they create an atmosphere of reassurance, where the young minds find solace in knowing that their concerns, anxieties, and aspirations are met with genuine attention and support,” she said.
Regular and meaningful dialogue with adolescents allows parents to be well-informed guardians, better equipped to safeguard their children from harm and nurture responsible decision-making.
Dr Atturu explained that the first step for parents should be to not expect their teenager to behave in the right way. “Genuinely, they don’t understand the need or drive for such behaviour and the reason why they have to change from what they are to what is expected. So, educating them in an explorative way is important.”
Here are 7 non-negotiable conversations you must be having with your teenagers.
Addressing the sensitive issue of substance abuse becomes an essential parental responsibility. (Source: Pexels)
Sex and relationships
Dr Atturu said embracing the gravity of discussing sexuality and relationships, irrespective of whether a teen is sexually active, empowers them with knowledge regarding consent, respect, and the potential risks involved, ensuring they make informed choices when navigating the complexities of intimate connections.
Drugs and alcohol
Addressing the sensitive issue of substance abuse becomes an essential parental responsibility as per Atturu. Conversations centred on the perils of drugs and alcohol, in light of potential family histories, serve as a potent deterrent and provide a sense of security by assuring adolescents of parental support during challenging times.
School and career
As adolescents approach adulthood, discussions about their academic aspirations, career goals, and the path they envision for themselves become paramount. “By offering guidance and assisting in the development of a comprehensive plan, parents become invaluable allies in their teens’ journey to achieve their dreams,” said Atturu.
Social media and online safety
In a rapidly evolving digital landscape, parents must engage in ongoing conversations about social media and online safety. “Addressing topics such as online predators, cyberbullying, and appropriate digital behavior will help teenagers navigate this virtual realm responsibly,” added Atturu.
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Mental health and well-being
According to Atturu, recognising the significance of mental health, parents must converse openly with their teens about their emotional well-being. Ensuring adolescents feel supported and understood when facing mental health challenges is vital for promoting overall resilience and wellness.
Financial responsibility
While often evaded, discussions about financial literacy and responsibility are indispensable for teenagers’ future financial well-being. “Engaging in conversations about budgeting, saving, and avoiding debt equips adolescents with essential life skills as they embark on their financial journey,” said Atturu.
Life values
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Exploring the depths of life’s meaning and purpose is a fundamental aspect of the human experience, as per Atturu. Parents can enrich their relationship with their teenagers by engaging in meaningful conversations about values, goals, and aspirations, fostering a sense of purpose and direction in their lives.
These non-negotiable conversations serve as the pillars of a robust parent-teen relationship. By nurturing an environment of open and honest communication, parents can instill a sense of trust, remain actively involved in their teenagers’ lives, and provide them with the tools necessary to make informed and responsible choices that will resonate throughout their journey into adulthood.
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